An “other” to me is someone who lives in a fantasy world. These kinds of people believe the world revolves around them and that whatever they do or don’t do affects the whole world. In reality the world rotates along with everyone in it. These people cannot deal with things that don’t go their way, so they try to always make it their way. When that’s how life really is, not always going your way. They can’t handle not being the center of attention. There are thousands upon thousands of people in the world. You cannot always be the center of attention to a person.
I feel a large distance between those kinds of people compared to myself. I know the realities of the world. When you live in a fantasy world, you will eventually lose your grip of it, and you will be face-planted into the ground. You will get a shock so bad that you won’t know what to do. For myself and others like me, we will know what is coming and we will know how to deal with it. Not like our others who will be stuck in such a conundrum of circumstances that the world will throw at us.
Let’s say we have to do group-work with a person like this. It will be very hard because these kinds of people will not do what they are supposed to and will pile all the work on their “others”, like myself. They will goof off and try to play around instead of doing the work. If you try and tell them what to do, when they don’t want to do it that will also create a problem. The problem will be that the work will not be done and you are left with a headache.
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